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Some advice for “The worn out mother.”
So
many people cannot have children yet as a mother I am sure I am not alone when
I think, “I can’t do this anymore!” or “I don’t want to do this anymore!”
Changing
diapers, cleaning house, cooking dinner, the list goes on. Add working on top of this and it gets even
harder. Not everyone is fortunate enough
in life that they can travel the world and not work forty hours a week. Or have someone clean their house for them,
or better yet a nanny! So we must come to the fact that we have to make the
best of our lives how they are.
Life
is not always fair but I must tell you if you are married and have a husband
who helps you with the children you are truly blessed. Though it may not always feel that way it is
true.
It
is easy to find faults with our spouse or even our children, but we must look
forwards and not backwards and be thankful.
That’s right! One of the children
just threw up in the car and the other one has a poopy diaper and it’s running
down her legs….Life can deal you tough days and easy days but no matter what it
dishes us we should be thankful.
You may be thinking this lady is
just crazy. I should be thankful for my
snotty little child who just yelled, “I hate you!” Yes that’s right that is
what I am saying.
So many women try and try to have
children but for whatever the reason it isn’t possible for them. I was fortunate enough to have two beautiful
daughters and I found myself thinking, “I wish I would have had a son.”
That’s horrible I know but don’t we
always want what we can’t have? We need to stop and take a look at our lives
and be thankful for all the good in them.
Children are definitely that, they
are something good in our life.
Take a moment to think about the
first steps they took, or maybe their first day of school. There has to be something there that can
bring a smile to your face. What about
opening an old picture album?
Maybe it’s not you being unhappy
with your children maybe they are unhappy with you.
What if my child no longer wants
anything to do with me? Well
unfortunately that is the case for some people and all I can suggest is that if
you want to mend a relationship you should sit back and remember how it got
messed up in the first place. Did you
say something out of anger that you couldn’t take back? Maybe they said
something so hurtful to you, you feel like there is nothing left in your
relationship.
My suggestion here is to look at the
situation and decide if you should be the bigger person and apologize even if
you weren’t the one who was wrong. Maybe
that child is just so stubborn, so you be the bigger person. You might need to
take the first step to make amends.
Maybe you kicked them out of the
house when they were eighteen because they were living a life you didn’t agree
with. There could be many reasons, but I
know this, getting along with our children is an important key to a happy life.
Don’t forget to pray and read god’s
word and see what he may instruct you to do in this situation. Read 1 Cor
13:14.
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